Stop Talking! Negatively


“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t — you’re right.”  ~ Henry Ford ~ 

I am seldom considered, though I do more to influence everything about you, than virtually any one thing in your life.  I control the kind of job you have, your relationships, your mood, how people treat you, the outcome of everyday situations, your view on life, the way you are received and treated by others.   Well, pretty much everything in your life.  I can make you either happy or sad, loving or hateful, cheerful or remorseful, congenial or spiteful and in doing so, control the very capacity that you have for success.  

No, you don’t often think of me except when you BLAME the problem I create on the shortcomings of others, or the state of the economy, or your family or a million other reasons.  Often, unable to find anyone else to BLAME you look for shortcomings within yourself on which to lay the BLAME, but you never really give me a fleeting thought.  Sigh!

When my impact on your life is fully considered in your every thought and action, when you are mindful of my awesome power, when you nurture and groom me for positive use in your life, I can become a magic force.  My influence will spread to every person you come in contact with.  Acknowledged and adjusted in a positive manner, I can easily turn your life around.  There will be no person or obstacle that can stand in the way of my success, or fail to be impacted for the better.  I am an amazing ally if you will choose to pay attention to me.  

I am an extention of you.   ‘I Am, Your Attitude’  2510c5363517d5c82a0644184e7d4cf0

Now consider these words and their opposites as attitudes:

Optimistic – Hopeless

Confident – Helpless

Happy – Miserable

We all know that in any given situation, we will act according to the way we feel.  If you feel happy, positive, optimistic, confident, you will act according to the respective feelings.  Right? 

We also know that the outcome of any given situation is determined by our attitude.  Certainly when we exhibit a positive, optimistic, confident attitude, people will enjoy being around us.  They’re more inclined to go out of their way to help, to give information, to take time to assist us. 

Conversely, if we have a negative, hopeless, helpless, miserable mindset, that is how we will act.  When we exhibit these attitudes, we make people uncomfortable and they tend to withdraw from us, to make excuses for not being able to help and make every effort to avoid us.  Admit it, when you act like this, you are not a pleasant company and soon you’ll see the “side effects” of your stinking thinking.   This leads to us feeling even worse, snowballing into becoming a vicious cycle.  

Who wants to live like that?  I know you don’t.  Certainly no one does it by choice, right?  Or do they?  How can I help not feeling the way I feel, you ask?  I have no control over what happens and how I feel.  NOT so.  Remember Ford’s quote?  Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you are right.  YES.  That is the power of your mind manifesting in an attitude. 

Your thinking creates the way you feel, the way you speak, the way you act and ultimately the way you live.  You are the master of your own life.  Stop blaming everyone else and start taking responsibility. 

I don’t know about you, but for me, in order to feel like I’m living, I have to keep growing., set goals and achieve them.  Achieving those goals – losing weight, finding a better job, improving a relationship – is not just a matter of taking action. There are things we need to stop doing if we want to be successful. We need to stop overeating, stop procrastinating, stop getting worked up over things that really don’t matter, stop acting helpless.  Above all we have to stop taking a negative stand and brutally extract the habit of saying I Can’t, from the root.  

The key to adopting new habits, is to first rid yourself of old ones. Those are the real problem.  In order to achieve that, we need strategies that actually work.  Regardless of how much self-control you have – willpower alone is not going to accomplish your goal.

I will help you do that by exercising control over your thoughts and words.  Starting now you will begin changing the way you think and speak.  For an entire month, you will apply your will power to your mind and mouth.  I will do this exercise with you.  

The material I am using is inspired by Gregory Dickow’s “Fast from Wrong Thinking”.  Check in every day and read the lesson, then apply it.  I would love it if you left a comment letting me know how you’re doing.  Share what you struggle with and any positive/negative experience you have.  We will grow together. 

See you tomorrow —


Life Solutions with Gabriela


“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” ~ Jeremiah 29:11 


Hello fellow blogger and the rest of non-blogging world. My name is Gabriela.  I am a medical assistant, Online Entrepreneur, Law of Attraction Coach, wife to the bravest Knight and man of my dreams, and Mum to three boys.

Thank you for stopping by.  I would love it if you’d come on a journey with me.  Journey to what?  To the fulfiling of your dreams.  Have you never dreamed for more that what you are, what you have and what you do now?  I’m sure you have, but you never knew where to begin.  I would like to help you get started toward the fulfiling of your dreams and if you had never had the courage to dream, I encourage you to start now.  It is never to late to dream and turn your life around, turning those dreams into reality.  Why do you think we dream of more and better?  Just to frustrate ourselves?  If a better life wasn’t possible, we wouldn’t have the capacity to dream of it.

Here’s where my heart is and what you will get from visiting my blog

  • Hope for a better life 
  • New solid vision on life 
  • Life changing strategies
  • Money Earning Strategies 

As I mentioned above, I am a Law of Attraction coach. The Law of Attraction as I found it in the Bible.  I am a believer in God and yes, He Is the One who “invented” the Law of Attraction.  According to God’s Word, as a man thinks in his heart, so is.  Proverbs 23:7. This is the essence of the Law of Attraction.  In other words, life does not just happen to us, but is the sum total of our thoughts, words and all the choices we make in any given day.  Consciously or by habit, we make those choices and every choice has consequences.

I didn’t always know or understand these things, but when I was introduced to the Law of Attraction and understood what it means and how it works, I suddenly knew why my life was the way it was.  Of course that knowledge prompted me to take action.  Things did not change drastically overnight.  Living with the awareness of LOA is a daily process, a lifestyle, a journey.  Today I can tell you that I cannot imagine living my life without “using” the Law of Attraction to my advantage.  My life is filled with joy, purpose and passion.  My biggest passion is to share this knowledge with everyone who desires and is willing to change their life and live abundantly and happily as God intended us to.

At this point you should get very excited knowing that you actually have control over your live. You are not a casualty, a victim of your past or the result of other people’s actions. You play a role in your life.  You HAVE CHOICES.  You have POWER to change it.

I just started this blog, but please keep coming back and I promise you will learn how to turn your life around.  What I want you to walk away with, is that no matter what your current situation is, no matter the loss(ess) you have suffered, the pain you have endured, (believe me, I don’t say this lightly) there is hope, there is restoration, there is life and happiness after pain and suffering.  Please choose right now to change your life.  Choose life.  Real life.  Why live without when you can have plenty?  Why live in want when abundance is yours by God’s Grace?  Please stop and listen carefully:  My heart is calling you to the inheritance you have from your Father.  God Is not upset with you. He Is for you.

I leave you with an assurance you may not be aware of.  It goes like this.  “But thaw shall remember the Lord thy God: for it Is He Who giveth thee power to get wealth” Deuteronomy 8:18 ~ I bet you didn’t know God wants you to be wealthy.  Until next time, rejoice in the knowledge that you have choices and your life could be transformed according to your heart’s desires.

Look up, it’s a new day for you ~ It’s A New Life